The guy I have been seeing for a little over a month now has a habit of delaying our dates and I don't know how to feel about it. The first two times we went out he showed up and we had fun, by the third date he cancelled 2 days before due to work (understandable) and rescheduled a week later. He ended up pushing it a few hours back because of work again which again I understand. For our fourth date we planned a picnic on a saturday. I worked early that day so I spend the day before preparing everything for the picnic, took me about half the day.
Then he messages me in the evening saying he doesn't know if he can make it timewise, didn't specify if he wanted to push it back or do another day. I had to ask for clarification which does bother me a little why do I have to push for that?? But okay he couldn't do that day anymore which sucked for me I spend time and money baking and all, my fault though for actually trying to put in some effort. Next day I finish work, go home and decide to run some videogames with my friend early afternoon. I open discord and I see him online throughout the entire afternoon into the evening circling through 4 different games. (Just to clarify I noticed him online by chance, I genuinely didn't purposefully stalk him or anything)
Honestly I am still a little bothered by this, if he didn't want to see me for whatever reason, either because he wanted to think things over with me or because he simply didn't want to go out that day anymore and just wanted to chill at home, he should have told me. I don't understand why people in general just can't be honest? I hate playing guessing games it's genuinely so shit. Am I in the wrong for being upset over this? He hasn't even bothered rescheduling idk how to feel about this.
